Life is no fun without changes and problems but when you are actually going through these situations you might not enjoy them. Life is about change and problems. We should not be afraid of them. Accepting them and moving on is the way to go. Everyone has them. You might sometime see another person and think” I would have been so much better if I had his life”, even that person has problems, might not be same as yours but still his problems are as much of a  big deal for him as your problems are to you. No one is perfect. Just look around and watch the world and you will understand that whatever happens happens for a reason. Though I believe in karma I would still say no matter how much good you do you would still have problems. That’s how the life is and that’s how the world works. Darwin said in his book On the Origin of Species, only the fittest will survive. He is absolutely right. In the human world it is not physical, it is mental. The person who accepts, absorbs and becomes a part of the change will be the survivor.  Life without problems is like an empty road. You will have fun in the beginning but after a while you are bound to get bored and tired. No matter how big the problem is there is always a solution.  

Never be satisfied

Nobody in the world can say, “I feel satisfied now. I don’t need anything else.” If they do say that then they are obviously lying. Everybody wants more and more out of their life. This is the reason why life is so good. If nobody wanted more then we would still be living in caves.

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Hypocritical Love

Love is defined as “having a great affection or liking for” and affection is defined as a “positive feeling of liking” and “liking” is nothing but a feeling of pleasure and enjoyment.

After knowing these definitions my understanding of life seems so clear. I always thought love is “selflessly caring for another person for who they are”, though it is in some cases is true but in most it is not. My definition of love is very rare to find and some people do find it in their mothers, fathers, grand parents, siblings, wives, etc. you may have thought people love you but there is always a reason why they love you. The love I am talking about doesn’t need a reason, if there is a reason why a person loves you then it is not really “selflessly caring” is it! That person has a selfish motive and hence you can satisfy it and so that person loves you. That person will continue to love till the motive is satisfied (if you fail in satisfying it then you are absolutely worthless to that person). In almost all the cases love is just selfish satisfaction of motives.

It really saddens me to know that what I thought my whole life is all a lie. I have been looking at people from this angle and everything makes so much of sense now.

I am not a hypocrite, even I do not love anyone selflessly. But it is difficult to face the truth which I recently realized.